An unforgettable memoir about a woman’s struggle to save her marriage of 28 years. She struggled with being a submissive wife at all costs, while honoring her vows. The more she fought to honor her vows, the tighter the noose. She was submissive in every way until she realized her submissiveness was silently killer her children, family and herself. She fought through marriage and ultimately through divorce. She had normalized behavior that she thought was normal behavior. Imagin intentionally planning to undermine your husband, father of your children, the love of your life to save and protect your children. It was the most difficult decision she ever could make. She lost who she was in the process. She couldn’t think about herself, her needs or wants – that became too painful to face. The only thing she could think of was her children’s mental and emotional state of mind. Through prayer and counseling, God revealed to her the perfect plan to pull her through. It had to be meticulous because he would fight her, and she knew this. The demise of the marriage and her way out had to be by his doing for her to be totally free.